Beautiful Boy

By John(jän) Lennon(ˈlenən)

Close your eyes,
Have no fear,
The monster’s gone,
He’s on the run
And your daddy’s here,

Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful,
Beautiful boy,

Before you go to sleep,
Say a little prayer(prer),
Every day
In every way,
It’s getting better and better,

Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful,
Beautiful boy,

Out on the ocean sailing(ˈsāliNG) away,
I can hardly wait
To see you to come of age,
But I guess we’ll both
Just have to be patient,

‘Cause it’s a long way to go,
A hard row to hoe(hō)
Yes, it’s a long way to go
But in the meantime,

Before you cross the street,
Take my hand,
Life is what happens to you,
While you’re busy making other plans,

Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful,
Beautiful boy,

Before you go to sleep,
Say a little prayer,
Every day
In every way,
It’s getting better and better,

Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful,
Beautiful boy,

Darling, darling,
Darling Sean.

https://y.qq.com/n/ryqq/songDetail/003iyKrj1KmhxF

I honor the father

Fatherhood

By Henry H. Walker

every child is precious(ˈpreSHəs)
and the rearing(rir) of that child
deserves(dəˈzərv) the finest of instinct, decision, care,

I am in awe(ô) of the mother
within whom the life begins
and who regularly allows the best to be possible,
there should be awe when watching
a young mother swaddle(ˈswädl) the child with love,

I can be in awe of the father
for whom the rearing is more of choice
and the way forward seemingly more pathless,

the father who sees the child,
who knows the child,
who is there for the child,
can help the way open clear
for the precious within the child
to break free of the shells that can hold him and her back,

at the heart of it all, the child makes his and her own way,

now, though, I honor the father,
whose love and effort can support the child
in becoming the best possible person
inherent(inˈhirənt) within what choice and circumstance(ˈsərkəmˌstans) allow.

My sons, you are great fathers!
Thank you for who you are.

https://henryspoetry.blogspot.com/2015/06/i-honor-father.html

Charlie(ˈCHärlē) and the Chocolate(ˈCHäk(ə)lət) Factory

By Roald Dahl

1
Here Comes Charlie

These two very old people are the father and mother of Mr. Bucket(ˈbəkət). Their names are Grandpa Joe and Grandma Josephine(ˈjōzəfēn).

And these two very old people are the father and mother of Mrs. Bucket. Their names are Grandpa George(jôrj) and Grandma Georgina.

This is Mr. Bucket. This is Mrs. Bucket. Mr. and Mrs. Bucket have a small boy whose name is Charlie Bucket.

This is Charlie.

How d’you do? And how d’you do? And how d’you do again?

He is pleased to meet you.

The whole of this family—the six grownups(ˌɡrōnˈəp) (count them) and little Charlie Bucket—live together in a small wooden house on the edge of a great town.

The house wasn’t nearly large enough for so many people, and life was extremely uncomfortable for them all. There were only two rooms in the place altogether, and there was only one bed. The bed was given to the four old grandparents because they were so old and tired. They were so tired, they never got out of it.

Grandpa Joe and Grandma Josephine on this side, Grandpa George and Grandma Georgina on this side.

Mr. and Mrs. Bucket and little Charlie Bucket slept in the other room, upon(əˈpän) mattresses(ˈmatrəs) on the floor.

In the summertime, this wasn’t too bad, but in the winter, freezing cold drafts blew across the floor all night long, and it was awful(ˈôfəl).

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https://www.amazon.cn/dp/B01LOHTSBO

How We Shut Down What We Want

By Leo Babauta

One thing I’ve learned about myself in the last year or so is how much I shut down what I want.

Somehow the world taught me that what I want is not acceptable(əkˈseptəb(ə)l), that I should only want what seems reasonable, doable(ˈdo͞oəb(ə)l), or won’t inconvenience(ˌinkənˈvēnyəns) others.

So I rarely(ˈrerlē) even acknowledge that I want something. I shut it down.

Here are just some of the reasons I tell myself I don’t want something:

It’s not possible, so I don’t really want it.
I don’t think I can achieve it, so focus on the doable.
Others might be able to do it, but I can’t.
I don’t have the discipline to stick(stik) to this, I can’t trust myself.
I don’t have the money for it, it would be irresponsible(ˌi(r)rəˈspänsəb(ə)l).
I don’t have time, I’m too busy.
I would feel guilty if I allowed myself to have this.
Other people would judge me if I gave this to myself.
The other person would reject me if I asked for it.
It’s too complicated.
It’s not worth all the effort(ˈefərt).
I shouldn’t want this.

Do any of these sound familiar(fəˈmilyər) to you? Wanting something has become laden(ˈlādn) with judgment, fear, guilt, and self-doubt. And so we shut it down.

What if we could have whatever we wanted?

What could you own that you want, regardless(rəˈɡärdləs) of whether you could actually have it?

What would you do if you decided you were going to make it happen?

https://www.amazon.cn/dp/B01LOHTSBO

The Overstory: A Novel(ˈnävəl)

By Richard Powers

First there was nothing. Then there was everything.

Then, in a park above a western city after dusk(dəsk), the air is raining messages.

A woman sits on the ground, leaning(ˈlēniNG) against a pine(pīn). Its bark(bärk) presses hard against her back, as hard as life. Its needles scent(sent) the air and a force hums(həm) in the heart of the wood. Her ears tune(t(y)o͞on) down to the lowest frequencies(ˈfrēkwənsē). The tree is saying things, in words before words.

It says: Sun and water are questions endlessly worth answering.

It says: A good answer must be reinvented(ˌrēinˈvent) many times, from scratch(skraCH).

It says: Every piece of earth needs a new way to grip(ɡrip) it. There are more ways to branch than any cedar(ˈsēdər) pencil will ever find. A thing can travel everywhere, just by holding still.

The woman does exactly that. Signals rain down around her like seeds.

Talk runs far afield(əˈfēld) tonight. The bends in the alders(ˈôldər) speak of long-ago disasters. Spikes(spīk) of pale(pāl) chinquapin(ˈCHiNGkəˌpin) flowers shake down their pollen(ˈpälən); soon they will turn into spiny(ˈspīnē) fruits. Poplars(ˈpäplər) repeat(rəˈpēt) the wind’s gossip(ˈɡäsəp). Persimmons(pərˈsimən) and walnuts(ˈwôlˌnət) set out their bribes(brīb) and rowans(ˈrouən) their blood-red clusters. Ancient(ˈān(t)SHənt) oaks(ōk) wave prophecies(ˈpräfəsē) of future weather. The several hundred kinds of hawthorn(ˈhôˌTHôrn) laugh(laf) at the single name they’re forced to share. Laurels(ˈlôrəl, ˈlärəl) insist that even death is nothing to lose(lo͞oz) sleep over.

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https://www.amazon.cn/dp/B073VX7HT4

A Year in a School Bus: Amid(əˈmid) COVID-19, A Family Finds Freedom Traveling the American West

By Madeline Carlisle

Paula wakes up in her bus around 4:30 a.m. most days. She can usually still see the stars. She works for a few hours, often on freelance(ˈfrēˌlans) projects using her training as a biologist, and makes breakfast(ˈbrekfəst) when her 12-year-old son Max gets up around 7:00. (TIME has agreed to grant Paula and Max pseudonyms(ˈso͞odənim) out of concerns for their safety.) She feeds their dog and cat, and then she and Max, who is on the autism(ˈôˌtizəm) spectrum(ˈspektrəm), begin homeschooling. They follow specialized(ˈspeSHəˌlīzd), skills-based lesson plans to keep his work short and consistent—at least two to three hours a day, seven days a week. By 10:00, they usually “hit the ground running” on renovating(ˈrenəˌvāt) their bus, she says. They try to complete one project a day, big or small.

Paula, 39, and Max have lived in their 35-foot skoolie—a term for school buses which have been renovated into small mobile homes—for nearly a year, often traveling across public Bureau(ˈbyo͝orō) of Land Management (BLM) land in Arizona(ˌerəˈzōnə), California, Nevada(nəˈvadə, nəˈvädə) and Utah(ˈyo͞oˌtô, ˈyo͞oˌtä). BLM land makes up one-tenth of the land in the U.S.—much of which is in the American West—and huge portions(ˈpôrSH(ə)n) are available for dispersed(dəˈspərs) camping(ˈkampiNG), or camping away from developed recreation(ˌrekrēˈāSH(ə)n) facilities(fəˈsilədē).

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https://ca.news.yahoo.com/school-bus-amid-covid-19-140048250.html

Aligned(əˈlīn) Solutions

By Steve Pavlian

Aligning your life can be very challenging. By alignment(əˈlīnmənt) I’m referring(rəˈfər) to harmonious(härˈmōnēəs) interactions among your:

thoughts
feelings
frames / perspectives
lifestyle
living situation
relationships
values
…

We all have misalignments to deal with in one or more areas(ˈerēə) of life. Are you actively engaged in correcting those misalignments to create greater harmony(ˈhärmənē)? Or do you let misalignments fester?

Misalignments have a tendency to multiply(ˈməltəˌplī). They’re like clutter. Once we start tolerating(ˈtäləˌrāt) a little bit, pretty soon we have a lot more to deal with. Letting this happen can make your life feel very burdensome(ˈbərdnsəm) after a while.

Fixing Misalignments

Sometimes I feel like the majority of my personal growth work (on the personal side, not the professional side) has been mainly(ˈmānlē) about correcting misalignments in my life. Notice what areas of life aren’t working for me, and really fix them. A big step here is to define what a genuine(ˈjenyo͞oən) fix looks like.

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Choosing Alignment

To choose alignment it’s important to stop choosing misalignment. Stop going for the partial(ˈpärSHəl) match; don’t be so easily seduced(səˈd(y)o͞os) by it. Set your standards higher on the full match. Stop tolerating the sound of metal(ˈmedl) grinding(ˈɡrīndiNG) on metal as the gears(ɡir) of your life are turning. When you hear that grinding sound, learn to stop immediately, find the source of the problem, and do what it takes to fix it. Then flip the switch back on.

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https://stevepavlina.com/blog/2021/05/aligned-solutions/

The Hundred(ˈhəndrəd) Languages of Children

By Loris Malaguzzi

The child is made of one hundred.
The child has
a hundred languages
a hundred hands
a hundred thoughts
a hundred ways of thinking
of playing, of speaking.

A hundred.

Always a hundred
ways of listening
of marveling(ˈmärvəl), of loving
a hundred joys
for singing and understanding
a hundred worlds
to discover
a hundred worlds
to invent
a hundred worlds
to dream.

The child has
a hundred languages
(and a hundred hundred hundred more)
but they steal ninety-nine.
The school and the culture
separate the head from the body.
They tell the child:
to think without hands
to do without head
to listen and not to speak
to understand without joy
to love and to marvel
only at Easter and at Christmas.

They tell the child:
to discover the world already there
and of the hundred
they steal ninety-nine.

They tell the child:
that work and play
reality and fantasy
science and imagination
sky and earth
reason and dream
are things
that do not belong together.

And thus they tell the child
that the hundred is not there.
The child says:
No way. The hundred is there.

https://www.babybrainhk.com/the-hundred-languages

Man’s Search for Meaning

By Viktor E. Frankl

PREFACE(ˈprefəs) TO THE 1992 EDITION(əˈdiSH(ə)n)

This book has now lived to see nearly one hundred printings in English—in addition(əˈdiSH(ə)n) to having been published in twenty-one other languages. And the English editions alone have sold more than three million copies.

These are the dry facts, and they may well be the reason why reporters of American newspapers and particularly of American TV stations more often than not start their interviews, after listing these facts, by exclaiming(ikˈsklām): “Dr. Frankl, your book has become a true bestseller—how do you feel about such a success?”

Whereupon I react by reporting that in the first place I do not at all see in the bestseller status of my book an achievement and accomplishment on my part but rather an expression of the misery(ˈmiz(ə)rē) of our time: if hundreds of thousands of people reach out for a book whose very title promises to deal with the question of a meaning to life, it must be a question that burns under their fingernails(ˈfiNGɡərˌnāl).

To be sure, something else may have contributed to the impact of the book: its second, theoretical(THēəˈredək(ə)l) part (“Logotherapy(ˈTHerəpē) in a Nutshell(ˈnətˌSHel)”) boils(boil) down, as it were, to the lesson one may distill from the first part, the autobiographical(ˌôdəbīəˈɡrafək(ə)l) account (“Experiences in a Concentration(ˌkänsənˈtrāSH(ə)n) Camp”), whereas Part One serves as the existential(ˌeɡzəˈsten(t)SH(ə)l) validation of my theories(ˈTHirē). Thus(T͟Həs), both parts mutually(ˈmyo͞oCH(o͞o)əlē) support their credibility(ˌkredəˈbilədē).

I had none of this in mind when I wrote the book in 1945. And I did so within nine successive(səkˈsesiv) days and with the firm determination(dəˌtərməˈnāSH(ə)n) that the book should be published anonymously(əˈnäniməslē).

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https://www.amazon.cn/s?k=man%27s+search+for+meaning&__mk_zh_CN=亚马逊网站&ref=nb_sb_noss

How ‘Friends’ Helps People Around the World Learn English

Language teachers say the show is a near-perfect amalgam(əˈmalɡəm) of easy-to-understand English and real-life scenarios(səˈnerēˌō) that feel familiar(fəˈmilyər) even to people who live worlds away from the West Village(ˈvilij).

By Mike Ives

True or false: In the television show “Friends,” Monica(ˈmänikə) Geller was invited to Rachel Green’s wedding.

The question is part of an English lesson for international students in San Jose, Calif., that is based entirely on the show’s pilot(ˈpīlət) episode(ˈepəˌsōd). It was designed by Elif Konus, a teacher from Turkey who once binge(binj)-watched “Friends” to improve her own English.

The class, and the teacher’s TV habits, illustrate(ˈiləˌstrāt) an international phenomenon(fəˈnäməˌnän) that emerged in the 1990s and has endured across generations: Young people who aren’t native English speakers appear to enjoy learning the language with help from the hit sitcom(ˈsitˌkäm).

Seventeen years after the final “Friends” episode, students and educators say that the show, still seen widely in syndication(ˌsindəˈkāSH(ə)n) around the world, works well as a learning resource. The dad jeans(jēnz) and cordless telephones may look dated, but the plot(plät) twists — falling in love, starting a career and other seminal(ˈsemənl) moments in a young person’s life — are still highly relatable(rəˈlādəb(ə)l).

“It’s really entertaining(ˌen(t)ərˈtāniNG) compared to other sitcoms, and it addresses universal issues,” Ms. Konus, 29, said by telephone from her home in Monterey(ˌmän(t)əˈrā, ˈmän(t)ərā), Calif. “The themes, if you ask me, speak to everyone.”

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https://www.nytimes.com/2021/05/29/arts/television/friends-reunion-english.html